Grasping for the Gorilla Glue of Life~ Trying to keep these messy seams from parting! ~ Stephanie Kissner ~
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Help Me Be Good!
A few weeks ago, I was laying in bed with my 17 year old daughter, and she jokingly said, "Mom, before you die, you have to tell me what you did to raise me, because I'm so awesome!" We laughed hysterically! Then after a few minutes she said, "No, really. What did you do?" We laughed some more. Apparently, she wasn't very fond of my strict ways while she was growing up, but now that she's old enough to realize that her morals and values are starting to serve her really well when she's faced with situations where she has to decide what to do on her own more and more, she's appreciative of the way we've raised her. She's able to be with her peers and love them, and understand them, and not judge them, but not feel compelled to join along with them if they partake in things that just don't feel right to her. I couldn't be more thankful.
One the tools that helped me with growing Godly girls are these "Help Me Be Good Books." I know it sounds silly but my girls LOVED these books when they were little. They'd beg me to read them over and over and over again. They touch on so many subjects such as Being Greedy, Cheating, Lying, Stealing, Being Messy (Come to think if it, that one didn't work so well. Maybe I should get it back out!) etc. I really suggest getting these books if you have little ones. They're fun yet powerful at the same time!!
http://store.joyberrybooks.com/index.cfm/product/22/help-me-be-good-series-box-set.cfm
Thursday, November 10, 2011
No Chicken Noodle Soup!
Saturday, September 3, 2011
Scaphoids, School, and Scotch!
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Meet Bob
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Turtle Time!!
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Feeling Campy
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Driving Miss Spacey
Maturity: Coming Soon to a Mind Near You ~
If anyone else out there has a teen that's about to turn 16 or has already turned 16, then this post will resonate with you guys! I have a daughter who turned 16 in October. 16 is the legal driving age here in Texas & as any other mom out there will attest, it's sometimes really hard to believe that at this young age, it's time to hand over the car keys & allow your child to just take off & head for the highway! The frontal lobe in the human brain isn't even fully formed until our 20's! I looked "frontal lobe" maturity up on Wikipedia and here's what it says:
"The executive functions of the frontal lobes involve the ability to recognize future consequences resulting from current actions, to choose between good and bad actions (or better and best), override and suppress unacceptable social responses, and determine similarities and differences between things or events. Therefore, it is involved in higher mental functions."
So there you have it!! We are giving keys to large mechanical devices to our children who are not fully formed mentally yet! Someone said that when you ask your teen, "What were you thinking?!"...they weren't! And it's no their fault...it's just the nature of the beast. So it's our responsibility to protect them until they're ready to make safe decisions. But how do you gauge just when that time has arrived when dealing with matters of life & death?
So as I mentioned, my precious angel of a daughter, in the form of a teen, turned 16 a few months ago and really wants her license and a car. And as much as I would love to have less running around on my plate, I'm super hesitant to turn her lose on the streets! And I've not even touched on the dangers of texting while driving, driving at night, driving with multiple people in the car, drinking & driving, etc. There are some pretty scary stats that I won't post here but I'll add a link for you in case you're interested:
http://www.car-accidents.com/teen-car-accidents.html
So am I alone in thinking 16 is too young to have a license? Or at least should we rethink giving them cars on their 16th birthdays? Maybe let them drive with us for just a bit to make sure they're as safe as possible? I don't know. What do you guys think?
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